Make Spotlights Invisible?

I was watching a Youtube video and the guy was using spotlights in the scene, but when he was rendering or move the camera around in Iray, the spotlights were invisible. Whenever I try to render with them, they are visible and have a black circle around them, you know, like a physical spotlight would be. I have tried doing the "not visible in render" type thing in the parameters, but that just makes them disappear, meaning no light. How do I do like that guy did on the video, where they are light emitters, but not visible at the same time?
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Select the light and in the Parameters pane turn off Render Emitter. This doesn't affecft reflections, however, just the direct view with no obstructions.
Thanks, Richard!